Why do I have trouble becoming "wet" before sex & what can I do about it??
Question: I rarely get wet before my boyfriend & I have sex no matter how turned on I am. He seems to take it personally & thinks the only legit way to fix it is to try to arouse me more, but it never works and it really bothers him. I'm not opposed to using lube, but I feel bad that I'm not wet like I should be and I don't understand why. Does anyone else have this problem or know why it may happen and how it could be fixed?
Answers: i had this problem. i didnt want my bf to find out because i didnt want him becoming olike your bf taking it personal when all relatiy its not there fault. Most girl's vaginas produce natural lubrication or fluid. Many girls get extra wet around the time of ovulation (when her ovary releases an egg). Lubrication will vary for many reasons, lack of adequate foreplay or interest, medications including (and probably most commonly) any of the hormone containing forms of birth control and any other medications that tend to dry out the mucous membranes. These are the most common reasons, but there are many others and if this is a persistent problem, you may want to see a medical care provider and use a lubricant in the future.
Try a lubricant or ask your doctor the next time you go for a checkup
yes i know how you feel. When i talk to my freinds about sex, you know ''gurl talk''. They tell me everything like how wet they were. I feel the same way as you because i dont get as wet as i should and i dont feel comfortable having sex b/c there is no way im going to use lube. I just wouldn't feel comfortable using it. But i don't know how this can be fixed. Iv'e been meaning to ask a doctor as well.
Some people just don't get wet. I personally about 95% of the time do not. You just need to have an open honest conversation. Just explain it is not his fault it is just your body. He shouldn't take it personally. DON'T blame yourself, it is just the way some women are designed.
Also, having him use his spit might help, my husband is against lube but doesn't mind using spit.
I am the same way, mine came after having kids and the gynecologist said it is a common problem for women even if they have not had kids. He recommended Astroglide, he said it is the closest to natural. It makes sex soooo much more enjoyable, its a bit messy, but so is sex LOL. Tell her to try it, not the warming it can burn, we use it every time.
I have heard it can be a hormonal imbalance, but you can get worse side effects when they start trying to get them balanced, have her try the lubricant first.
get a bf that turns you on.
read something or look at something perverted. it might turn u on and hopefully that might make u wet!
Answers: i had this problem. i didnt want my bf to find out because i didnt want him becoming olike your bf taking it personal when all relatiy its not there fault. Most girl's vaginas produce natural lubrication or fluid. Many girls get extra wet around the time of ovulation (when her ovary releases an egg). Lubrication will vary for many reasons, lack of adequate foreplay or interest, medications including (and probably most commonly) any of the hormone containing forms of birth control and any other medications that tend to dry out the mucous membranes. These are the most common reasons, but there are many others and if this is a persistent problem, you may want to see a medical care provider and use a lubricant in the future.
Try a lubricant or ask your doctor the next time you go for a checkup
yes i know how you feel. When i talk to my freinds about sex, you know ''gurl talk''. They tell me everything like how wet they were. I feel the same way as you because i dont get as wet as i should and i dont feel comfortable having sex b/c there is no way im going to use lube. I just wouldn't feel comfortable using it. But i don't know how this can be fixed. Iv'e been meaning to ask a doctor as well.
Some people just don't get wet. I personally about 95% of the time do not. You just need to have an open honest conversation. Just explain it is not his fault it is just your body. He shouldn't take it personally. DON'T blame yourself, it is just the way some women are designed.
Also, having him use his spit might help, my husband is against lube but doesn't mind using spit.
I am the same way, mine came after having kids and the gynecologist said it is a common problem for women even if they have not had kids. He recommended Astroglide, he said it is the closest to natural. It makes sex soooo much more enjoyable, its a bit messy, but so is sex LOL. Tell her to try it, not the warming it can burn, we use it every time.
I have heard it can be a hormonal imbalance, but you can get worse side effects when they start trying to get them balanced, have her try the lubricant first.
get a bf that turns you on.
read something or look at something perverted. it might turn u on and hopefully that might make u wet!
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